If you want absolute proof, you may want to consider hiring a reputable private investigator. Give her some time to prove to you that she can be trusted and then make a final determination about whether to continue in the relationship. If he doesnt stop looking at the on line dating sites, too bad for him.
A female reader, anonymous , writes 17 October 2007: I would sit my husband down and explain that you are hurt. This also lets your husband know he doesn't need to sneak around behind your back, and it keeps the communication open. If you do choose to approach him after you have gained your evidence, do so with a calm voice. Watch how he answers, it'll tell the story there.
Our specially trained counselors can explain whatever you need. However, it can be time-consuming, especially if your guy is computer-savvy. If they were, and he thought so too, he would cherish you and never do anything to hurt you. Keep your eyes open. He feels betrayed, abused, and hopeless.
Daly City, CA 84 friends 36 reviews. This year im going to visit my family in the philippines and i found a few new sites that he just signed in and im sick and tired of deleting all of his profiles and accounts. You marked this post as helpful! A female reader, anonymous , writes 23 February 2008: So I went into the site on my phone his reason it was registered was his info is programed in his fone mine is too but I still had to put it all in there manually inorder for it to sign me up.
So now i guess i know it's not just a spam email. It wouldn't be ok with me, wouldn't work in my marriage. He's not the only one who can be sneaky in this house. I went back on the site and took screen shots of his profile and the activity and confronted him with the proof.
Things were NOT fine! I wish I could tell you whether to stick it out, but I just don't know enough about what's happening in his head. When you're trying to catch a cheating man via the Internet, you have to look for more subtle clues as well. There's no reason to freak out about a husband looking at porn.
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He is a good father. My husband and hook-up sites, simply enter your spouse's dating sites well before the. In the interim, i would make plans to leave the situation. I can defend the position.
Glad things worked out for you. Well, I would leave him, but you said that's not an option. I continued to chat with him on the site and managed to get him to look at himself instead of blaming me as his wife for his emotional issues. Im sure he wouldnt be there if there are better things in his life right now.
At least be creative and use a secondary email account. We've been married for 5 years now and his my first marriage and i am his 3rd marriage. You always have to look out for yourself and never let your guard down. What he is doing is breaking the trust in your relationship. Yelper Shout-Outs 9 hours ago. It might be a violation of his privacy - but then - once I'm gone - he can have all the privacy he wants.
Just focus on yourself now. Its cheating he needs to stop or you need to leave. And still swears he didn't do it. Whether it is innocent or not, your feelings ARE justified. I found a similar issue with my X H...
Close the Privacy menu and refresh the page. Are you sure you want to delete this answer? Loading comments… Trouble loading? My husband of 25 years had an affair, sent this last night but sorry need more confirmation and support.? Lastly, make yourself very clear of what you're not going to tolerate and be ready to back it up if he fails to honor his vows to you.
You can use these as a way of gaining insight into your own situation. Only the two of you are ever supposed to know what is going on within your marriage, and that practical rule is especially true for your problems. It is worth it!
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For what it's worth... Glad things worked out for you. You can get a lot of extra information that way. Is your relationship on the rocks? Hit post a question to do so. I still have the keystroke enabled so I'll check that occasionally just to see.
Und wie weit darf sie gehen? Maybe he was just curious but to play it safe, I'd get into the porn with him and try some out in the bedroom. Only, he doesn't know you know these things and feels like it's a violation of his privacy for you to know. That's not how it's supposed to go.