You have spent 3 years together, are both old enough to marry, educated, and with good jobs. We see each other every weekend, Fri. He sounded sleepy so i told him i will call at dawn the next day, and to my surprise he just said i shouldnt call him. How worried should I be? I really wish women would not be under this tremendous social pressure to get married.
Only a third of girls would be happy with other people knowing about the engagement before they do - and even then he is only allowed to confide in a maximum of two good friends. Is he still serious about our relationship or have i just lost it all. I wish a woman past, say, 30, who two still unmarried and childless and years engaged were propose generally treated like less of a person just because some guy didn't validate her with a marriage certificate -- and the assumption being, of course, that she wasn't good enough for anyone. I am only 21 and he is 29.
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I think your pushing it right now. Thousands protest against climate change Haydock Park Racecourse staff try to break up 50-man brawl Glamorous Princess Margaret seen with family after daughter's birth Malia Obama relaxes poolside with friend in Miami, Florida Students strut the catwalk at the annual St Andrews fashion show Punches are thrown in a massive brawl at Haydock Park Racecourse. I see this approach as being direct. Marriage is a life changing decision and a serious commitment, and it will take him a little bit of time to think.
It becomes a matter of pride after a certain amount of years go by and your family, friends, and co-workers are not seeing any growth in you or your relationship. My boyfriend won't get physical with me. Jess Conte 28 Natural Tits. Am I the only girl who never dreamed of having a big wedding growing up? Children before marriage — no, why there is no need to do this to yourself, people look down on you.
Thanks for the offer though. Only that i wanted her to be more than just a friend. That is why we do not see each other during the week, not because he doesnt want to see me.
I would of left 2 years ago. Originally Posted by moonflower88. Follow your heart but try not to give an ultimatum, I do believe it corners a man and likely does the opposite.
It is hard to accept when people find it hard to do the right thing. And I meant it. At the time it was torture, I was constantly in my head about it and over analyzing everything but again I think waiting only made us and our families stronger!
I will have to find comfort in that we both did what is best for ourselves and ultimately for each other. Find your inner values, and morals. I think you need to let this guy go and find better.
Dating For 4 Years And No Proposal
I'm not asking it on repeat and it just so happens I had the serious talk with my boyfriend a few days after. So, if he wants to go and find something else, he can. What do you think?
- As far as living with him, I will not live with him without being married.... I too have been in this relationship for 4 years, 7 months. He's over 30 and we've been together for three years, shouldnt that be enough to know if he wants to marry me? I'd never tell him the deadline because the lst thing I want is a forced proposal. I too have asked the same questions, why the hesitation? Nicole Kidman's niece Lucia Hawley reveals the very different career path she's chosen to her famous aunt Paul Young reveals he was hospitalised with pneumonia that left him so weak he struggled to walk up the stairs The singer, 63, is gearing up to go on tour Gwen Stefani embraces her style icon status in eclectic ensemble as she is joined by her sons Zuma and Apollo Rosie Huntington-Whiteley shows off slender legs in skintight denim as she runs errands in LA Now it's Charles without a seatbelt!
- He doesn't have to propose NOW, but he should at least be willing to give you a firm time frame. If he's not willing to do that, then you might want to move on your way. I love him but i always knew one day i wanted to get married and i am hurting. I did tell him about going sister-in-law's sister and his reaction did surprise me.
Why waste two years on someone you don't want to marry? Setting a timeline is not necessarily a bad thing or pressuring him. Even worse years the man who proposes to going the woman happy, and then years never get married. Also, in some states, because you are not married, your man technically has no legal rights to the child if you were too break up. I know what works better statistically and also I know what worked for me. Does he love you, or are the weekends for something else only?
We do live years and have for about 7 months. All I hear are excuses which makes me sad and then mad at him for deflecting the real issue…he is stalling for time cause if he truly wanted to marry me, he would. If he is afraid to commit to marriage then I hate to say it, but who's to say he won't walk away years from now when a younger, hotter model comes along? I suppose another huge factor is that we already live an hour away from one-another, so it's hard to commute - which I do a few times a week and racked up near 30,000 miles on then brand new car from that alone.
He replied that he's taking me VERY seriously and does see a future with me. As far as living with him, I will not live with him without being married.... He is a waste of time. All of a sudden we started talking about it quite a bit, he told his kids we plan to get married and even his ex wife. If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail? It is hard to accept when people find it hard to do the right thing.